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How to Stop Having Pointless Conversations with Yourself

Derek Strike
6 min readJul 4, 2024

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‘I’ve lived through some terrible things in my life, some of which actually happened.’ Mark Twain

We all engage in internal dialogue, but this thought process can sometimes spiral into unproductive loops. These “pointless conversations” often involve excessive worry, self-criticism, or rumination that doesn’t lead to solutions or personal growth.

While self-talk is natural and can be beneficial, excessive negative internal chatter can harm our mental well-being, sapping energy and reinforcing unhelpful thought patterns.

Recognising and addressing this habit can significantly improve your mental health, boost confidence, and enhance decision-making skills.

Learning to manage your internal dialogue allows you to clear your mind for more constructive thoughts and emotions.

In this article, we’ll explore strategies to identify unproductive self-talk, interrupt it effectively, and cultivate a more positive internal dialogue for a healthier, more balanced mindset.

We’ll look into practical techniques, lifestyle adjustments, and the role of mindfulness practices in transforming your relationship with your inner voice. You’ll find a holistic approach to managing your internal dialogue.

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Derek Strike
Derek Strike

Written by Derek Strike

Writing is about becoming conscious. Nothing in life is of any value unless it is shared with others. Love to learn and be challenged.

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